Nudity In Church


In the Art World nudity is commonplace and almost passe- however- "Nude Art in the Church"is a surprisingly sore subject. Whenever I bring it up people get rather animated. Most opinions on the subject seem based on rumor, exaggeration and the opinions of others. This is an unavoidable topic- for me as the majority of my painting commissions are for churches. Let me remind you, the reader, that this is not a blog about spirituality. It is however about art and creativity.

In my creative journey I am faced with this question daily- in my blog, in the work I do for magazines, but especially in the Church. In the coming weeks I will defer to experts and artists who have carefully discussed, thought, and researched this topic. For today I will express my personal thoughts. I view nudity as a very important topic- central in fact to any belief system and especially vital in the Christian tradition. So here it is- not a rant for everyone- but an invitation to the Christian Church to re-think its stance:

+ Action/Reaction
People react. The Church reacts. The current, majority stance on nudity is a "play-it-safe-don't-create-controversy-stance" that is a reaction to extreme elements of past art. Although there is a connection between nudity and sexuality- that connection is at best overplayed. The church has for years been reacting to the extremes of "the world" and allowing the whiniest element of the church to have their say- to the detriment of Christianity's spiritual development and edification.

+What is the purpose of the human form?
There are many within Christianity that would posit that the human form is completely fallen and useful only for sexual perversion. The irony is that relegating the human form to a completely sexual role is in its self a sexual perversion. It is not at all what the God of the bible and the christian church intended. It also reeks of "Gnosticism", or the separation of the physical (evil) from the spiritual (good). One cannot discuss nudity without a discussion of Gnosticism.

+ The biblical narrative connects nudity with a "fallen state".
Adam and Eve sin and Wham! there is a direct connection between that sin and their clothed state. But notice in the text that the human form is not considered sinful- what we read is shame. Shame is a message from within that says "cover-up". Not a message from God. Another aspect that gets discussed very rarely is that when the redeemer comes and sin is atoned for- WHAT HAPPENS TO NUDITY THEN? To some degree Christ redeemed the physical world as well as the spiritual world. We also must attach some significance to to very physical nature of the created world- when God created our physical forms he said that they "were good". Christ himself took on flesh- a nude body- and remained sinless. It would be a great irony indeed to reject the physical form out of squeamishness and prudery. What God has called good and beautiful let no one call otherwise.

+ The communication of humanity/universality/brokenness
There are some things that only nudity can communicate- Nude art is powerful and evocative. I might even go so far as to say that those who oppose the human form are in fact ignoring much deeper discussions within themselves. Many would love to not go anywhere near the dark and very real elements of humanity and spirituality. Ignoring nudity is the safest way to ignore deep discussions- for it is one step down the road to ignoring The Arts all-together (which much of the worldwide church has been doing for years). The discussion of nudity in the Church is really a piece of a wider discussion of "art in the church". In churches that allow any form of art at all there is a tension between "art that mollifies and pleases" and "art that challenges and edifies".

The painting above is by Bruce Herman- an artist who has much to say on this topic.

So- what do you think? Where and when is nudity acceptable? What about nudity in Church?

Sail!

As Winter gets slightly Vernal I start to think about Summer. Summer has a lot to do with sailing, and picnics and swimming and riding your bike lazily down main street. Last summer I was living in Traverse City, Michigan. It was great because I could ride my bike to the beach in under five minutes- so I tended to swim several times a day. There were plenty of outdoor festivals and good energy everywhere. On the other hand I did go to the beach a lot by myself which is not always the most fun- and I read a lot of Camus- not a summerfuncombo that I would recommend. Perhaps this summer I will be somewhere new- I have no idea- but I will try to be in a place where I don't have to swim alone every day. The best parts of this summer were the visits from friends and family. I recently raided my friend Michael Newsted's Instagram archive for pics from our sailing picnic. That was a splendid day of tea and thrifting and lounging and swimming and meeting new friends and dining with old friends and of exploration. As always we did it in style:


Check out more of Michael's work on his wonderful blog!

Reading List #8


+ This week's Manly Nine: In The City.

+ What Matters. Top creative professionals talk about the importance of the arts. (via Hannabird Fischer)

+ This Interiors Blog is fantastic!

+ Culture Keeper featured on Links A La Mode!

+ Photographer Irena Werning re-creates childhood photos in her Back To The Future series. Amazing and hilarious. (see images above)

+ Culture Keeper regular, Karen Dickerson on clothing and spirituality: Little Creators

Bobbi Graves: Letting Go of Youth


Culture Keeper Favorite Bobbi Graves discusses beauty and aging:

"There’s an uh-oh moment in every person’s life, whether at the first fine gray hair or the first fine line, when we realize that the blush of youth is leaving. We can panic (and pluck), but the key to weathering this transition with aplomb is to redefine how we think about beauty. No matter who you are or how much money you throw at a plastic surgeon, you will age. You can control how you deal with it: denial or with dignity. I chose the latter. I want to find another way to feel beautiful rather than turning back the clock – a change in attitude can help us regain confidence and even improve our looks.

I remember the day I passed by bathroom mirror and thought I saw my mother. I also remember the day I passed that same mirror and saw my grandmother. We have an attachment to the image we see in the mirror, and barring illness or major weight fluctuations, that image may remain much the same in your 20’s & 30’s. But when it begins to change, it doesn’t just affect your looks, it affects your identity. These changes reach down to a deeper place: what your future holds, who you are as a woman.

If you look at aging as an illness or as something unnatural, it can lead to rash decisions. No matter what you do, your youth is something you eventually have to let go of, and allow yourself to feel sad about the loss. You can’t change society’s attitude, but you can change your own. I am learning that I need to leave behind the youthful image I once associated with beauty. Find something you can get better at doing as you get older. I chose to become an etiquette consultant.

Mourning the loss of youth is not unlike what occurs when you lose a loved one. At first there is a feeling of, “oh no, this isn’t happening.” Then there is a gradual understanding that you can’t hold on to the past. There may be a deep sadness that life has turned a corner, but you have to let go. If I tried to preserve the look I had in college, it would only make me sad and anxious. When you truly accept that your life stage is changing, it doesn’t feel so sad in the end. You can have a big cry and then move on with your life.

So, here is what I am doing these days – I am redefining beauty. When I glance in the mirror, instead of worrying about my appearance looking older, I think about looking good at my age. I am changing my internal dialog and thinking about whether there is anything I can do to look my best at my age now, but it takes practice. The notion of perfection isn’t healthy for young kids, and it is definitely not healthy as you get older. There are certain aspects of your face and your body that don’t change that much, and you should concentrate on those – I love buying shoes and jewelry because those sizes seldom change. It’s up to you to take your positive features and attributes and wear them with pride.

Once you accept you can’t turn back the clock, concentrate on looking good/healthy versus looking young. Take positive steps but don’t take obsessive amounts of time on it. Stay active. Be involved with something you feel passionate about.

Botox? Plastic surgery? That’s your call. But since I feel strongly that there is no turning back the clock; I see it as a short-term solution to a long-term issue. I do foresee that there are increasingly better procedures that are not so radical and are probably going to be what dyeing hair used to be. But again, none of these procedures replace the necessary internal work that helps us age with grace.

It’s alright to mourn the loss of youth, but in the end you will see yourself differently. You will feel more hopeful. You will create a solid foundation from which to grow for the rest of your life. You will gain a comfort level, a renewed energy for other things. When I look in the mirror now, what I see reflected back looks like age-appropriate beauty. I like my life.

Face your uh-oh moment head-on.

Listen to your internal dialogue.

Learn to appreciate your appearance today.

Make some healthy changes. "

-Bobbi Graves

(Photo by Larry Endicott )

That Bobbi Graves


It is a rare occasion in life that one has the privilege of meeting someone as gracious and charming as Bobbi Graves. This New-England native is the epitome of kindness and decorum... in fact, she teaches seminars on protocol and deportment. Bobbi lives out her expertise. An afternoon in her home is likely to be spent drinking tea, lounging by the fire in a wing-back chair or watching BBC dramas. Among her other accomplishments Bobbi is the mother of Ashleigh Graves-Roesler and Mab Graves- (Culture Keeper favorites) her entire family is fantastic and quite accomplished.

In the coming weeks Bobbi will be contributing to Culture Keeper. I am excited to feature one of the most fantastic and creative people I know. You should follow her Blog- Tea 101.

(Bobbi is pictured above with her grandson Ransom, and her husband Jack- who can make just about anything.)

Reading List #7



+ Could not stop laughing when I read these Altered Science Posters. (via Rainee Williams)

+ The beautiful Stephanie Palenick sent me this is fabulous blog: The Dandy Portraits.

+ A blog about great artists and murals and history? hooray! Check out Mural Makers. (thanks to Jeff Barrick)

+ Tyler Grant found These Bags by French designer Christopher Dellstrand. Need or want?

+ Robert Joseph's Blog features great color and fun interior design ideas. I really enjoy his unique perspective. (See image above with the great quote by Albert Camus)

Calvin Walterhouse: On Clothing And Identity


Who are you?
What do you have to say?
What do you want from life?

"Identity, soul, desire. Questions with myriad answers. Questions that have been asked for time untold. Questions that plague and occupy the minds of kings, sages, philosophers, and the everyman alike. Questions that only you can answer for yourself. “These questions do not concern me” you may say. But if they do not, they should. If they do not, someone else is answering them for you, determining your destiny, stealing your money, violating your land.

These questions present challenges, and a confrontation with and an immersion into the unknown, and so it is quite understandable that most people leave them unexamined, or at least unrealized. But they can always be felt gnawing at the back of your consciousness, begging to be acknowledged, asking you to explore them. You know deep down that you want to know more, to discover new things about yourself and life, but you silence this voice because it is dangerous, because it might make you or those around you uncomfortable, because it might evoke change.

Maybe you cannot abandon all of your possessions and allow the winds of destiny to blow you where they may, but you are powerful and you have a voice that must be heard, you need not be afraid to speak. Words although powerful are not always necessary to communicate, the themes of identity, soul, and desire can be explored daily at an essential and primal level: what you wear. The claim by many that fashion is a superficial pursuit is false, and leads many to never explore themselves and the world around them in one of the most simple ways possible. What is more is that those who claim not to care about what they wear are only lying to themselves. The most ascetic of ascetics has an aesthetic. The skin with which we cover our skin every morning is a communication to the world around us, it is an expression of who we are, and there is no limit to what we can say. It communicates which groups we are a part of and which not, who we are, how we feel, what we are thinking, and what we want from life.

And so who are you, what do you have to say, what do you want from life? What you clothe yourself with is the first and essential step in determining the direction in which your journey shall disembark. Explore, experiment, experience, the answers do not matter so long as they are your own, refuse to allow others to answer these questions for you. It will take courage and boldness to start, but you will soon discover that you are strong, brave, and empowered and free to dress as you please."

-Calvin Walterhouse

My Style: Military Update

I am not really a "military person". I hang out with a lot of pacifists, hippies, poets and artists- so the military is not really my scene. But vintage military pieces can always be in style. Here are a few that I recommend:


+ The Military Coat
I really enjoy a good military coat. Perhaps it is the buttons, which play upon my penchant for 1960's mod. I have a black sea captain's jacket and a grey wool trench they are two of my favorite pieces. I build my outfits around particular items- vintage military coats are a great place to start.


+ The Haircut
Every man within forty miles of a barber is currently trying for some version of this haircut. It is part-classic, part-rebel. which, in my opinion is the perfect combiniation for a gentleman. To err on the classy side- leave it longer on the crown as Xavier Dolan does in the second image.
+ The Book
"The Seven Pillars of Wisdom is perhaps one of my favorite books. Second, perhaps to "With Lawrence in Arabia" by Lowell Thomas- which is really just a book about this book. What makes a military book a good book in general is when it tells a story of adventure that has more to do with history and humanity than waging war on your nation's enemies.

+The Backpack
Military backpack? I'd wear that! This one is updated with a great color. You really cannot go wrong with military gear- in canvas or leather. If you are using vintage, make sure that you remove labels and patches before traveling abroad.


+ The Transportation
I really like the idea of this shiny black Vespa. tres classy... yet it has a military vibe. One would look a bit too "third-Reich" rolling around town with a side car. This is much classier.

+ The Boots
Perhaps they still have a "punk" connotation- but I think that combat boots can be done in an updated way. They are very utilitarian- boots that are durable but can shine-up to look great with a suit. My friend Kirstin Stiebel believes strongly in combat boots. She would be so proud.

(Photo Source: Coat. Hair. Xavier. Pack. Vespa. Book. Boots)